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It is said that the relationship between husband and wife of a friend's neighbors for many years is not good. They often swear and talk hoarsely, which has an inevitable bad influence on their children who lives with them.
First of all, knowing that the relationship between husband and wife can be so bad, the understanding of love in the future will become negative.
Furthermore, the children will no longer believe in the family. The children thought that the family is a shelter from the wind, but it is not. The harbour can be full of stormy waves or magnitude 8 earthquakes.
Third, there is only fear in their mind. They thought that they could confide to their parents if they had any problems, but all of them disappeared, because their parents couldn't protect themselves.
Fourth, parents can't be believed, because the rose garden vision their parents told themselves before has disappeared, so who can they trust in the future?
Fifth, some children may blame themselves and fail to provide any help and troubleshoot family disputes, forming low self-esteem and blaming themselves.
In short, the discord between parents and even the stinking each other like exposing scars is a fatal blow to children. It has an indelible impact on children's growth, children's trust in adulthood, and children's longing for love. The children become a new force for future social issues.
/02 2023
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