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本帖最後由 cucumber 於 2022-10-31 19:03 編輯
His views on #marriage
First of all, there is no perfect marriage in this world,
Anyone who marries will have the urge to regret,
Those who have money have no time, those who have time have no money,
There are many temptations for the good-looking, but I don't like the ugly.
You may find honest people boring, you may find interesting people lazy,
Even if you are married to the person you love, how long can you love him?
This is also a problem.
Those who are happily married are not looking for the right person,
Instead, they both chose to see the good side of each other,
Secondly, no matter who you marry, you are actually living with yourself.
Have you noticed?
For your pursuits, your dreams, pain, and joy, many times others can't feel the same way.
Even if you are married, many things, you still have to fight for yourself,
Deal with those feelings that make you feel tired,
The cause of unhappiness in marriage,
Just because you always think he should be the same as you think,
So you always try to change him,
Changed and changed, finally found no use at all,
And you actually do a lot of things,
are not doing it for yourselves,
you think you are doing it for the family, or for someone else,
So you're especially miserable because you feel like you're giving up all the time.
For those who are happily married,
Their state is that you pass your own time, I pass mine,
And if there's twenty percent, thirty percent,
Fifty percent of the intersection is already enough.
Don't lose your last remaining mysterious feeling.
~Ah Wo
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