自己一點問題都沒有 You yourself have no problem at all

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人與人之間的交往，有喜有悲，有順意有不順意，不能在不順意時一定是人家的錯，自己一點問題都沒有。
看新聞，有藝人在離婚後，便把對方說到一文不值，垃圾不如，屎都不如，如果真是這樣，當日是誰強迫你們在一起呢？自己要為自己的選擇負責嗎？人家做不到你的要求，就是人家一定錯嗎？你自己的要求在人家看來是合理嗎？為甚麼人家不滿足你的要求呢？是要求過份嗎？是人家覺得不值得嗎？是人家變了，你自己沒有變嗎？人家變壞，只有你自己變好，只有你自己維持不變嗎？
除了娛樂圈每日帶給我們無限的歡樂和話題，朋友圈都常看到不同的資訊，或者是朋友的自身經歷，慢慢看，慢慢感受，人生就是這樣。
倦了，年紀都大了，老了，人生又到了晚年了。
大抵上，每人的故事都是不停的重複，只是你拿到的是全部故事的少部份而已。

There are joys and sorrows in the interactions among people, and there are satisfaction and dissatisfaction. It must not be the fault of others when you have dissatisfaction, and you yourself has no problem at all.
Watching the news, after an entertainer was divorced, he said that the other party was worthless, like trash and shit.
If this is the case, who forced you to be together that day? Do you need to be responsible for your choice?
If he fails to meet your requirements, is he necessarily wrong? Is your own request reasonable in the eyes of him? Why doesn't he meet your requirements? Is it excessive? Is it not worth it? He has changed, haven't you changed? When he becomes bad, only you become better, and only you remain the same?
In addition to the endless joy and topics that the entertainment circle brings us every day, the circle of friends in social media often let us see different information, or friends' own experiences, slowly watch and slowly feel, life is like this.
Tired and getting old, we are in an old age already.
In general, everyone's story is repeated endlessly, but what you get is only a small part of the whole story.
／09 2020